Spanking Erotica

There is some really great spanking erotica out there, and, in my opinion, these are the top three.
  
I liked their first book, and their third book muchly, however, for me, the second book is the winner.  It has erotic spanking, bdsm spanking, punishment spanking, discipline spanking, kinky spanking, corporal punishment, ... hairbrush, paddle, strap, switch, and more. 

Fact is often more sexy than fiction. I liked this collection for several reasons. One is because these are real life spankings. Another is the wide variety of stories. "Spanking" in the title refers to all kinds, not just the classic "over the knee." 

The stories include spankings (and canings and birchings, and hairbrushings, etc.) with every kind of instrument, as well as the hand. Another reason I give the book high marks is that there are also many themes and sub-themes: sexuality and eroticism, punishment, buttock and anal eroticism, dominance and submission, humiliation, age play, judicial punishment, domestic discipline, medical play, etc.

I also like that most of the letters describe emotions and thoughts before, during and after the punishment, not just physical stuff. 

It's incredibly sexy to get inside the head of the people in the accounts, especially inside the spankee. 

In addition to being an author herself, Rachel Kramer Bussel has been making a living editing a number of anthologies of erotic stories in the last few years. With subjects ranging from dominance and submission, to voyeurism, to even the delights (to those who are enthusiasts) of PVC. 

In Bottoms Up, Bussel returns for the fourth time to spanking.

This anthology is one of the stronger anthologies in that genre, as well as being one of the stronger anthologies Bussel has edited. She has a good hand as an editor, and by now knows how to balance authors, themes, and story lengths.

I especially appreciated the diversity of authors in this anthology. The writing of erotic stories for publications in these anthologies is something that women seem to have colonized as their own. Openly male authors (I have no doubts that some men write under female pen names) are uncommon, but this anthology sports a significant minority of male writers.

So while you will find stories by stalwarts such as Alison Tyler and Sommer Marsden (two of the best stories in the anthology, in this reviewers opinion), you will also find stories here by Simon Sheppard, Craig J Sorensen and other male writers as well.

The subthemes in spanked run the gamut. We get stories from both sides of the hand or paddle, and stories range from the mostly cerebral to the delightfully and painfully *sharp*. The stories never felt repetitious.

About the only thing I can say about the book is that at 20 stories and 172 pages, its just a tiny bit short, for the price you pay.

If you are a fan of erotic stories, and the theme of spanking is at all interesting to you, I think you will enjoy Bottoms up. 



You'll want to crawl under the covers with your favorite, eh-hem, accessory, after reading the salacious tales in Rachel Kramer Bussel's anthology "Naughty Spanking". 


From Jonathan Ames's hysterical encounter with a matronly professional spanker who offers "reduced rates" due to the recession (as well as some "extras" if you inquire nicely) to the naughty housewife, Amanda, who purchases too much lingerie and waits eagerly for her cop husband to discipline in Kate Dominic's "Cops" to Michelle Zipp's sexy spanking pony show and naturally, the editor's saucy encounter with a couple that is certainly willing, ready and wanting....for her wooden paddle, all the stories in this rock-star anthology of erotic spanking stories will encourage you to get out that wooden paddle, spoon or that old fashioned hand and give the naughty pleasure a fine shot. 


In Violet Blue's sharp introduction, she notes: "not everyone can give a good erotic spanking..spanking is so much more than, 'strike ass, repeat.' There's so much more to it - so much to love!" and these essays are just that - witty, engaging and sexually titillating!


I read plenty of erotica, but this collection really takes the cake. I wound up speeding through one hot story after another, blown away by all the breathtaking, blistering scenes. 


My favorites were "Yenta of Spanking" by Darklady and "Cops" by Kate Dominic, though there were plenty of others that I started reading and then had to stop to, um, take care of business. Some of the scenarios in this book are ones that will stay in my mind for a long time, and that I will reread late at night when I need that certain something to get me going.

Butterfly Vibrators - Vibrator Review

This was going to be a review for the ladies, and, don't worry, it still will be, but, fellas, I gotta say, the majority of you seem to love this thing as much as us!

Now granted, you boys might not like the actual vibrator itself, sexually - but man, do you love things with remotes!

When I asked for feedback on this remote controlled vibrator, I was expecting multiple FEMALE reviews, but, instead, I got a whole bunch of boys telling me how cool it was to have a "volume" for their girlfriend's orgasm.

So:  Females say that its pretty hot, to have your boyfriend across the room with a button to pleasure you.  Most recommended some form of bondage (say, some silk scarves to tie you up) to heighten the drama.

The actual vibrator, or butterfly-ness of the vibrator is pretty cool.  The fact that it is hands free makes it neat for solo-play as well as partner interactive.  All 'n all: Recommend!

Sunshine Highway: Porn Review

Okay, for starters, I must preface this with the fact that I am with Bree Olson the same way I am with vampire movies: Extremely tolerant.

What can I say?  I totally have a soft spot for this dirty talking daddy's girl.  She's hot (she's also a vegan... insert your own meat in her mouth joke here) but, most importantly, her orgasms come across as real.  (heck, she fools me, anyway)

So, with that in mind, let's analize this...er, analyze this particular works of hers.

No anal at all?  Really?  Oh Bree... I'm disappointed in you.

Copious masturbation scenes (meh, although Bree's dirty talk makes it better in one scene) and a very sexy, but also very short girl on girl scene as well.

While delightful as always, Sunshine Highway is not her best work.

Lick it Warm, Blow it Cold!

Every now and then, a product comes along that immediately gets 4 stars.


Its magic, like a thermos ;-)

If you lick it, it heats up, but if you blow on it, it gets cool.  Just imagine the possibilities hm?

What?  No imagination?  (giggle) alrighty then.

Well, with my female partners, I've used it on breasts, feet, the back of a knee, bum holes, necks, small of the back, even fingers!  Its a very versatile cream, which leads to all sorts of intimate encounters.

With my male partners, I've found it a little more limited, they didn't seem to enjoy it too much on their balls, and, I didn't seem to get too much of a reaction from chest etc - but, it still is really awesome on the cock.

(I know, obvious, right?) but yeah, an extra droolie blowjob is amazing with this stuff.

I found I got a little too much of a reaction, clitorally, so I wouldn't recommend it for that.  But, I totally, totally love this product for virtually everything else!

Must get!

Training Yourself to Deep Throat

I must say, I was one of the lucky few who was born without too much of a gag reflex.  However, I know plenty of female friends who were not so lucky.

If you are one of those, or, even if you aren't, but just want to improve, you may be interested in checking out "Comfortably Numb" - its a throat spray specifically designed to help the deep throat process.

[NOTE: AMAZON SELLS THIS PRODUCT OUT CONSTANTLY, SORRY IF THE LINK DOES NOT WORK!]

Uniquely, many of the reviews its gotten state that the girls have since taught themselves how to deep throat without it, using it as a "training spray"

Between friends, I would say that, eventually, oral skills come up in some of the more intimate conversations, and, at some point, most of my friends have asked me at one time or another to teach them how to get an entire cock down my throat.  

I've been lucky in regards to partners as well - many of them have had huge cocks.  And, even though I had a naturally suppressed gag reflex, I still had to work up to the big boys.

So, practice certainly can make perfect, but, where to start one's practice?

Well, the above-mentioned throat spray is an excellent place to start, but, amazon never seems to keep enough in stock, so, another option are flavored lubes which help increase the saliva production.

More saliva = easier ride!


I would not necessarily recommend flavored condoms... they never truly taste as advertised, but, flavored lubes are yummy.

If you're a safety first kinda person, though, these flavored condoms are DEFINITELY better than normal brands for this sort of thing!!

Even coating your partner in honey is a fun trick as well!




Tickle Her Pink Clitoral Stimulating Gel: Product Review

Clitoral stimulating gel is a love it or hate it product.  *I* love it.

I've already written a short review of it in the past, but, I don't think I was quite clear enough in my analysis, so:

A few of my "focus group" (that is, girlfriends) have had mixed reviews.

Some found it caused a kind of burning sensation (yikes!) but, I've found that this is generally due to using too much, and, in some of the cases where there was no allergy, I was able to convince my partner to try it again with a little less.

Branding also plays a part, as, there are LOTS.  I've tried "Tickle her pink" with... quite good results, and, a few others with "meh, better than nothing" results.

Thankfully, I've never had a negative reaction, but then, I always tend to put a little of something on first, before "going to town", y'know?

I figure, even if I only put a little on, and it does nothing... well, I'll know for next time to try a bit more!  (especially after some of the horror stories my partners have given me, haha!)

I don't mean to scare you off the product, it's great!  Its just that I would caution a small use, and a small incremental increase until you find your desired intensity :-D

Reader Rebuttal (sadly, not a pun)

Reader Response!:

Hi girls, I love your blog, and read your post about penis extenders, and thought I'd share with you my experience.

I had been looking into using one of these devices for a while, and ultimately chose the Size Doctor Male Enhancement Penis Extender Enlargement Stretcher. 

Its the same price as the one you suggested, but I liked the packaging on this product better. 

It literally is the same product as all the 300-600 dollar packages. Definitely do not waste your money on those. 

I have been using this for 2 months. It took some trial and error. When you first start using it, definitely start slow and get used to the feeling and let your penis adjust to being stretched. 

Some days I took it off and used lotion to let my skin heal. About every 2 weeks I would increase the tention, until I got to where I am now (the longest bar without any extra pieces added) 

You should continue to raise the tension every 2 weeks until you can't anymore and you start seeing more growth. Also you will slip out if it isn't secured properly. Tie the tube on the bottom instead of using the clips. 

Anyway, after 2 months of using it I have gained half an inch erect (from 5.5 to 6.0 inches length) and about 3/4 inch in girth (5.25 to 6.0). I plan on using it for another 3-4 months and try to gain one more inch. 

So I can highly recommend this product because it works. But you HAVE to be consistent and not get discouraged. It is a lot like working out, keep going to the gym and eventually you will see results. 

I haven't downloaded that book you recommended, but I think I will, as you seem pretty taken with it!

Thanks Anonymous!  To clarify about the book, (as a girl) I haven't used it, but, I will say that it was one of the biggest "reader response" type recommendations we've given!  Thanks again for sharing your results with us!  :-D